KYODAI SHO

To be a woman is to be obedient, and consequently she will have her way.

(Background : April 16, 1275, 53 years old, at Minobu, Showa Teihon p.932)

TOKI AMA GOZEN GOSHO

An arrow is directed by the power of its bow. The clouds move with the power of wind. The works of man (husband) are seeded by woman (wife).

(Background : March 27, 1276, 54 years old, at Minobu, Showa Teihon p.1147)

Explanatory note

The above two letters are often quoted at wedding ceremonies addressed to the brides. They are not only beneficial for women but also for everyone. The quotation means not to push one’s desire or plan disregarding others, rather to see reality and to follow the reality, then one’s desire or plan will be materialized.

Nichiren Daishonin is telling us that husband and wife should demonstrate individual ability in their union and that any partnership is the same. It is the wife’s skill that helps the husband to be successful in his work and his faith.

Rev. Kanai

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