Buddhism for Today, p247It is most important for us to do things for ourselves. Especially is this necessary in the case of faith. It is all right for us to adopt a faith at others’ suggestion, but we cannot be real believers if we neglect to seek the Way seriously with our own minds. “If a friend repeatedly urges me to go to hear someone preach, I’ll go out of a sense of obligation, though I do not really want to”—such a feeling cannot develop into real faith.